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    Holls so sorry about your co workers makes it way personal with co-workers and friends. Your friends are very lucky to have you in there lives. You are super supportive here can't imagine in real life. The one thing for sure is nothing in life is guaranteed thats why most of us struggle on here. I love how you can take a horrible experience and give us real life examples of what it really like to have a genuine problem. Anyway you and for friend stay strong no matter what the findings are. Prayers for your friend.
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    Holls, I took a few days away from the forum to gather my thoughts after my friend passed. But I wanted to stop in and send my love. You have always been so generous with your time and your words with me, and I wish I had something to say to you that could make any difference but I'm going to pull a you and send some hugs instead. You're a strong woman and I'm always in awe of your ability to channel love and light and everything positive in the fact of fear and anxiety. I'm sending that positivity back to you and your friend today.
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    Thank you Holls, I'll TRY to stop worrying ?
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    I do the exact same thing!!!
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    Holls, how long did you have the muscle ache? I'm trying so hard not to let it overwhelm me, but it's not easy. I don't want to run to the doctor, tests aren't cheap, and the last time I went my dr said I didn't show any signs of liver damage and thought I was crazy for asking if my eyes were white or if they looked a bit yellow . The near constant ache in the upper abdomen and back just have me real freaked out. I wish I could ignore it.
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    I agree with Holls.
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    Sorry about your friend. Selfish? It’s part of this anxiety gig. It’s hard not to be. Don’t feel like you are alone in that, because I’m the same. You’re friend could have had many things going on and it’s unique to her. And the best thing that I can think of; if I were in your shoes, and dealing with this headache. I would run it by my doctor, and tell them the reason why you are fearing any issues they will be the best to put you at ease on what can be causing YOUR headache. I know that after I hear someone I knew passed and the family or friends tell me how the person passed I start having those symptoms. So now when I hear someone has passed I shy away when they start telling me details. Or I tell them please no info on how they died. I hope you feel better soon.
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    Thank you so much everyone. I've taken a few days to breathe and just be with my partner. I appreciate the words you've all sent. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
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    Thank you for your advice. I am sitting here thinking that maybe she killed herself and the family isn’t telling anyone. Who would find their 30 year old daughter dead in her bed and not want to do an autopsy? I can’t think of any other reason other than s****de. She was always such a happy and nice person and this last week her Facebook posts have been ranting, angry, and out of character for her. So I don’t know. I’m just happy I have you all to talk to. It’s kinda my therapy.
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    So from time to time I have gotten an itchy scalp. But right now, it's killing me. I've been scratching for a few days. It's not one specific area but rather the back of my head...like the nape of my neck up to the top of my head. It's been a rough week. My mom had a very bad reaction to a med and it's freaked me out. Had to take my dog to the vet (normal check up, nothing weird) but I freak out at any doctor visit even a vet visit. My husband had a run in with a dude at work and I was anxious about it...plus you know, my normal garden variety anxiety. I've had itchy spots on my arms and legs before that have come and gone...I think they are anxiety related. Have you had an itchy scalp from anxiety?
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    First, I am very sorry for your loss. As for thinking of yourself...well, I have this theory that at least for me, I tend to worry and fret about health things as a way to not deal with other things in my life. It's like some weird and sadistic and useless coping mechanism. Would it be possible that thinking of yourself in this situation is a way of not dealing with the grief? In my case, many times, the answer to that question is "yes." That may not be the answer for you...but maybe then again, it might. Grief is a B*&tch and especially new grief like this. Again, I am so sorry. We're all here for you. Please keep us posted on how you are doing.
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    Don't you love our level headed no nonsense husband's. ? He was right.. you were sweating Bec it was hot in the house. I also sweat during An anxiety attack.. I get very flushed fast. That's how I usually now one is coming on. My husband works shift work so he is gone a lot and I do get that twinge of nervousness when he's not here.. but you are still doing better.. you are getting better step by step and day by day.. don't let this panic attack over shadow your progress. Lol it's so hot here 103. But we are used to it. Aug is the worst month of the yr. I guess I'll take heat over cold any day. Hugs. I hope you are feeling even better now.
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    I am very sorry to hear of everyone's losses. It is terrible. I don't deal with it well either. From the period September 2012 to August 2013, my mother, father and uncle all passed away and it was hard for me to handle also.