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Just another Friday night with social anxiety...

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  1. HONK!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i spend most nights in watching tv with my cats an bf!! i have no friends where i live so it is hard 2 ind sum1 2 go out with!! i hate this :( xxx

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I think part of the anxiety comes from the myth of "Friday night"- this idea that everybody who's anybody is out on the town and partying it up with 20 friends and having the time of their life. That is just not the case. There are people without any social anxiety at all that do very little on Friday night. They may watch a movie or read a book, or simply call a close friend to talk and unwind after a busy week. Still others will be making lists and planning for the following weekend.

You know what old Ben Franklin said, "Early to bed and early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise."

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Good point Joseph. I think sometimes I am so afraid of being abnormal that I cling too much to social norms, conformity and whatnot... but I did used to be more social than I am now. Like I don't know that I would be the club hopping, womanizing type, but I would certainly enjoy the attention and company of others if it weren't for this anxiety...

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Embrace abnormality, who decides what is the social norm anyway? Social borefest, get your freak on thinker!!

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HONK...hope im not too late. i went to a work party the other night and felt so uncomfortable i convinced myself to stay until the pizza came (lol) and i have to drink a lot in order to feel somewhat okay around so many people... even then i just sit quietly to myself most of the time, while everyone else socializes.. it was at work but had there been a cat or dog there i would surely be spending most of the time with it xD

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This post is still true today, sadly. Honk, honk, honk...

I'm sorry :(  That's too long to sit in the same rut Thinker ! Way toooooooooooo long ! 

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honk.................hi my name is peter I have not been out for 23 years its horrible I have no life but now I am getting help this is my first step by joining this site and talking to others about my condition some thing I have never done before hope to talk to you soon peter

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