JOYCICLE 654 Posted June 25, 2013 After my post on the brink, I havent' talked to my sister . I wasn't really mad . I just didn't have anything nice to say so I let it be and figured it would blow over and we'd talk about it later ! So last night.......BOOM! I'll copy some of my favorite posts from her on my fb because they're so RICH! '''so are you just not talking to me until after July is overwith? Or is this indefinate? ''It's frustrating for me who has been trying to keep a sisterhood friendship which over the past few years has been a one-sided friendship anyways. Should I just give up or what...because you don't care, I can tell, and should I not care either?''' ''Seems one sided to me. When I invite you to anything all I get is an excuse. And whenever we do get together it's on your terms & I always go along with it because I want to see u.. but I don't have time to walk on eggshells around you anymore. So yeah...maybe we should keep this thing going'''' ''Ha. Do whatever the heck you want. You're obviously indifferent.'' ''I would tell u how I really feel but I don't want to upset your anxiety''' ''Whatever. You're so skewed.'' ''You're sick''' ''I have tried hard to keep a friendship with you. I normally don't keep people in my life who don't reciprocate in a friendship.'''' SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO............... I'm so over it ! Honestly , what am I supposed to say to this? I'm very disappointed in her because I have never seen her talk so ugly to ANYONE and would have said prior to 3 weeks ago that we had a great friendship and relationship as sisters. Seems shes' just been playing along all this time. I bolded and underlined my very favorite ! Sigh.............. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gilly 1086 Posted June 25, 2013 wait wait wait, she is your SISTER! It's not about friendship it's FAMILY She has taken a shit because you don't want to go to a family meet up, not because of your anxiety but for other legitimate reasons. And now she says this, omg I'm sorry joy but she's being completely unreasonable. How does that mean you don't care? You are both grown women with families, what does she want you to do? Hold hands skipping down the street whilst you grab lattes? This is nuts.... From knowing you for 3 years you haven't shirked any 'sisterly or family responsibility' you were there for your Mum all those months she was sick, you made yourself sick with worry. And I have not seen any evidence she has tried harder than you to 'reciprocate a friendship' WTF is this? Has she been at the sherry? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jonathan123 2367 Posted June 25, 2013 Relationships, relationships, relationships!! The bloody curse of mankind. Trying to establish and keep a relationship going in any circumstance can be hell right across the board. Wives, husbands, partners and especially relatives. Its amazing how siblings in the same family seem so different. There is obviously no way you can communicate at the moment Joy, so I suppose best to leave it. The old "I can't talk to you because of your anxiety. You're sick" card has been played so often. Anything that is regarded (in their eyes) as unreasonable is your fault cos you're sick! "Can't talk to him he's a bit, you know". Been there Joy and I feel for you. J. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JOYCICLE 654 Posted June 26, 2013 Thanks 123 ! You're right. She played the ANXY card ,,,,,,,now I don't even care to talk to her at all again. She has it too , but hers is in remission ! OOOOOOOOOOOOH FFS! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JOYCICLE 654 Posted June 26, 2013 wait wait wait, she is your SISTER! It's not about friendship it's FAMILY She has taken a shit because you don't want to go to a family meet up, not because of your anxiety but for other legitimate reasons. And now she says this, omg I'm sorry joy but she's being completely unreasonable. How does that mean you don't care? You are both grown women with families, what does she want you to do? Hold hands skipping down the street whilst you grab lattes? This is nuts.... From knowing you for 3 years you haven't shirked any 'sisterly or family responsibility' you were there for your Mum all those months she was sick, you made yourself sick with worry. And I have not seen any evidence she has tried harder than you to 'reciprocate a friendship' WTF is this? Has she been at the sherry? IDk what's up. I know her MIL is in town for a months's stay so that must be up her ass. I'm done with SISTERS , anyone's sister is off my list ! ........except my sons's sister ! LOL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
