Leah Fay

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  1. No problem at all:) thank you! Yeah it helps so much to have something to focus on. Exactly, you could date the most attractive person in the world but if they're really not a nice person then what's the point?
  2. Hi Jon, Thank you for your kind reply, that is my aim for this year, to get out there and not be as shy, a sort of new years resolution haha. I am beginning to realise now that I shouldn't worry about what others think of me, and I hope i'll realise more as time goes on. My negative thoughts play a big role in all of this, which I need to make a change to. Thank you for the encouragement, I appreciate it
  3. Hey ArrowHawk11, I'm new on here and your post intrigued me because I feel slightly the same. My low self-esteem stops me from making the effort with others, especially males. I see all these girls happy with their boyfriends and the concept of me being in that situation scares me because I feel as though my anxiety will get in the way and I will seem boring because I'm too anxious to go places and do things that deep down I truly want to do. I know the best way to meet others is to put yourself out there, and this is the first step to take, no matter how daunting it sounds..and it is a lot easier said than done. Just know that you're not the only one who has these worries, and I am sorry that bullying was the cause of your low self-esteem. You sound like a wonderful person and I hope you meet somebody great because you deserve to. All the best at college and I'm here if you ever want to talk:)