lonely tonight

[guidinglights 0]

hey guys.i was feeling pretty bad so i thought i would come vent it out here. Im almost 30 and this week ive just been negatively analyzing my current life situation. ive been single for years and sometimes the lonliness just overwhelms me. i feel like i am too emotional and complicated to ever connect with a girl. its hard for me to meet people because at my age everyone is at the bars or whatever. and i have been sober for 3 years and i still go to bars sometimes but it is just not fun anymore. i dont have many friends left due to them moving away or getting married ect. i just feel like i must have fucked up in life because i am one lonely guy and i am sad as hell. i am going to a new psych doc in a few days. so theres something positive. thanks for listening

[Dany 10]

If you don't drink just avoid bars and the people who frequent these places. Instead try to meet people that have something in common with you. Do you have any hobbies or passions? 

 

For example I like astronomy and cars so I go to the planetarium and cars exhibitions. There I can meet people interested in the same topics like I am and it is easier for me to open a discussion about something I know. 

 

You can even meet really nice girls in these places, girls that might be interested in you because you share the same passions and this can be a starting point in a relationship.

 

Don't be sad about your life because you are the only one that can improve it, you just need to change your mindset. Don't give up, keep trying and you will eventually succeed.

 

Take care!

[Bterflymom 155]

My son who is almost 50, never been married, met his fiance on Match.com so don't give up. 

[jennifer clunie 6]

Hi, I'm sorry you feel so sad and lonely. I know how that feels. You can always talk to someone on here.